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I am 36 and my wife is 24 years old both Employed, No Kids as we kept planning in place. Ours was a Love come arranged marriage. My wife Proposed me and put forth her wish to marry me. We dated each other for almost a year and got married. Since our family was far related there had been no issues. Her parents approached my parents and put forth the proposal to get us married. My parents also had absolutely no issues in getting us married as we were far related. Nor they went to enquire anything or dia nay background verification. At the time we got married she was doing her MSC. First 6 months after marriage there had been no such suspicious activity noticed. Or I didn't find anything wrong in my wife's actions. Then I noticed her hiding conversation's deleting conversations in WhatsApp. when asked she used to say its group message which was deleted. Gradually then on we were getting less intimate. Or if we have sex it's like she has no interest. We used to have arguments over it. She even said she has no interest in it nor knows much about it. We even started having arguments on other aspects of housework responsibility, Keeping wardrobe organized. She is not looking or taking care of my needs. She also asked if she has an interest in other people. Etc. I never went deep analyzing. Which relationship does not have arguments and fights. Afterall Where there is Love there is fight and arguments. It's just a matter of understanding, Correcting and Fixing, what's going wrong then and there so that the complication does not continue or get bigger. More complications and challenges came when She got a Job. I was Supportive. Said it's her decision. If she wishes to take up a Job which involves Travelling and staying away from home most of the time. I did Suggest to take up lecturing, as she also had an offer from her college. She didn't take it up stating no proper salary. She started staying away from home for days at times the whole week. Our Phone conversation was Limited. As I used to work in the night shift and she used to be busy during the day. I used to be scared as she was alone. always used to ask her to send room pics. Keep the door locked in the lodge where she stayed and so on. Our Sexual life was even going bad. her period cycles were too uneven. Just before her visit to the outstation, she used to complete her period cycle, and once back it just started. It even made me suspicious and more worried. By this time She had almost started avoiding me. She was in her 10 months of service with her employer where she was called and asked to give resignation. With no notice period. When asked she said HR had increased targets and she spoke back she couldn't and she was called to head office and asked to resign. After which she Joined another job where she can come home daily and not travel out of the station. things seem to be getting normal for the first 2 to 3 month's Fights and arguments over this matter used to happen on most of the weekends. I even made attempts to set her mood by taking her out for dinner on the weekend. but when returning. She used to pick up an argument and everything used to go bad. At times the arguments used to go to the extent where even if I used to walk out of the room she used to come behind and irritate so much that I used to lose my mind and raise my hand. This Continued for the Recent 8 Months. But instances, where I hit her, was 8. I used to repent every next morning for w