Regarding Exparte Judgement?

dear advocates,I am teaching professional. i married a girl on 2016. my marriage is an arranged marriage.she is a advocate.she lived with me only 2 days.on wedding night, she told that she was not intrested to marry me. she decided to marry due to her parents compulsion.I said that,"why you tell all these reasons in first night. if you not intrested in marriage why don't tell earlier". she replied " very sorry to spoil your life".so i don't want to disturb her.I tried to convince her.she apologized to spoil my life.Her parents also convinced. But she not willing to live with me.First, she promised to my advt.that she will give divorce without issues within a year.she (petioner) filed a case and said that she will gave a divorce with null and voidable. She also gave customary divorce. but she cheated, she did not present every hearing. after 5 hearings that case was disputed.My advt.enquired about the reason for not appear in court. she said that if you want divorce, you may file a case. In mean while, she married with another person and she have a child also.Now, we filed a case against HMA 13(1)(ia) section.I am petioner and she respondent. i attended every hearing. after 5 hearings, we got ex-parte judgement.In mean while, My parents still searching a girl, In marriage market i am second handed. some girl parents not intrested.next month, i will appear ex-parte evidence before judge. my question is : 1)what will happen on that day. 2)i am having a photo of that girl who currently marry with him. may i submit photographic evidence against her? 3)i want to teach lesson against her.. she spoiled my 2 years of life. 4) Is Customary divorce is valid. some said that it is invalid, some said that it is valid. in my case, girl is advocate,we agreed customary divorce in front of my advocate. 5)What is the solution for my life?